He is dating a married woman
[Read: Having an affair with a married man] Some men always want the best of both worlds.They want to have a stable committed relationship with one person and a happy quick fling with someone else.And it always starts with the same feelings of confusion, hesitation and attraction.And women, by nature are completely helpless in such circumstances.He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family.This can piss off just about anyone, especially when they’re so madly in love, but the promise of better things to come in the ‘near’ future and the sex is just too good of a promise to spurn the advances of a married man.That one conversation in the office cubicle takes you all the way to the coffee shop, the snack bar, the restaurant, and the movie hall.
If a guy constantly looks around like something’s bothering him when he’s on a date with you in a public place, he’s obviously scared to be seen at the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong chick. Does he try holding your hands or kissing you when you’re at the coffee shop? But if his phone rings again and this time, he walks out of your earshot to whisper into the phone, add ‘possible cheater’ to that list too.You are just a mysterious part of a married man’s life that surfaces when he packs his bag and tells his wife he’s travelling to another city.It’s insulting, especially when he says you mean so much to him, but that’s the life you have to accept. And every time you ask him to walk out of his relationship, it would just lead to frustrated tears. And at times, it can take years for you to accept the love of a genuine man you meet later in life.You’re entering into a relationship with a married man! You’re the “other woman” who’s dating a married man.And before you know it, you’re way past knee deep, you’re almost choking with the bottled affections you have for this man. [Read: Feel lost in life] You’re marked from the rest of the world. But it doesn’t matter to you, because you know this man loves you, and wants you more than he wants his own wife. He constantly reminds you that he loves you a lot more than he loves his wife, but he’s just not able to walk out, what with his kids, wife, and even his mom involved in the scene.